But I can't see you 'cross the streamline
My love waits for me in daytime
But I can't see you through the snowblind
But I wasn't there for you
You are gone
Goodbyes are long
Well, I know time reveals in hindsight
I can't wrestle with the stormy night
Because your love lasts a lifetime ...
You are gone ...
Goodbyes are long
~ System Of A Down ~ Streamline ~
Spring, the time of year when we can dig deep, take stock of what we have and de-clutter. A time of year to streamline ... your closets, your home and your life. Yes, your life ... the perfect time to look at the people you surround ourselves with and streamline.
It’s great to have a lot of friends, but it can be exhausting to work at friendships that don’t offer much in return. You begin to understand that quality far outweighs the quantity of friendships. So you contemplate “streamlining” your friends. But do you have the courage to do it?
Most of the time we hold onto people because of a distant memory of how they were rather than come to terms with who they are. We are afraid of reality, afraid of being alone and afraid to tell the truth.
Remember the saying ... “no matter what happens, you should never burn a bridge”. What an interesting thing to say so absolutely. But aren’t there times when burning a bridge could be a good thing? Aren’t there times you get the best light from a burning bridge?
Who we let into our lives is a choice ...
The very nature of being human means being social. We are what we are in relation to other people. Family, friends, co-workers, etc. We need other people in order to become fully functioning. We learn love, empathy, support, encouragement, honesty, commitment, respect and trust. We learn to grow from each other and the experiences amongst us. These connections fulfill us by bringing meaning into our lives.
Finishing unfinished business is a satisfying feeling ...
Yet, if you then start to observe every relationship as a Divine connection, you understand that there are times when connections have served their purpose. There was a reason or a lesson ... possibly to teach each other or learn from each other. But when you start to ask “what’s in it for me?” rather than “what can I do for others?” it may be time to move on.
So get the courage to streamline ... to make changes and not excuses, to be motivated and not manipulated and to be useful and not used ... so that you can open yourself to all the new that is waiting for you.