You've got to believe
it'll be alright in the end
Fighting, because we're so close
There are times we punish those who we need the most
No, we can't wait for a saviour
Only got ourselves to blame for this behaviour
And nobody knows what's gonna happen tomorrow
~ Duran Duran ~ What Happens Tomorrow ~
How do you define motivation? Is it what makes things happen? Without it, is there any desire or drive to accomplish or create? Once I understood what was moving me in one direction or holding me back in another, I started to understand my motivation triggers. And started to make things happen. For me, motivation affects everything I do and every choice I make.
We usually can slot into one of the below motivation types ...
Achievement ... pursuing & attaining goals ... this kind can be combined with the drive to be good at something. Achievement motivated people like work, responsibility and take pride in solving problems.
Affiliation ... strong desire for love and acceptance ... there is a drive to relate to people on a social basis. Having a support system is crucial. Compliments, good attitude and cooperation are valued.
Security ... essentially a deep concern for the future. The feeling that accumulating money and material possessions eases and shelters the pathway to the future. Change and risk-taking is stressful. Having steady work and dependable income is comfort.
Nuture ... need to give support, help, service and gifts to others with no strings attached. Important factor is knowing you are lending comfort or a listening ear. This is associated with the ability to empathize and respond to the needs of others.
Fear ... often imposed from an external source. Creates worry and stress. Internally, the feeling of need for change, due to pain and fear of remaining in a situation is often a catalyst for this type.
Power and Influence ... intensely driven to put in an extra effort to accomplish goals for this promise. Competition with others is evident. Influence, leadership, desire to control and responsibility for others are by-products of a power position. Positively, results are achieved, negatively, power used for personal aggrandizement.
So what motivates you? Unlocking your motivation type(s) can help you understand your personal values ... what truly energies and excites you. Once you know what these values are, then you can plan your goals around them. If you are still unsure, study the some of the most successful people. They understand what their values are and live their lives in accordance with them.
You’d be surprised how many of us though, live our lives according to other people’s values. We end up devoting a large amount of time to things that genuinely don’t matter to us which results in those feelings of de-motivation & sluggishness.
Some of my personal values are health, innovation, learning and insight, fun and adventure. I make a concerted effort to ensure I am factoring in these values every day in some way. I am careful not to confuse my values with ‘pleasurable activities’ ... values are not always about instant gratification – but they assist you to grow as a person in the long run.
“Never let the things that matter to you most be at the mercy of those that do not”