Insanity laughs under pressure we're cracking
Can't we give ourselves one more chance?
Why can't we give love that one more chance?
Why can't we give love, give love, give love..?
'Cause love's such an old-fashioned word
and love dares you to care for
The people on the edge of the night
And love dares you to change our way of
Caring about ourselves
This is our last dance, this is ourselves
Under pressure, Under pressure
~ Queen ~ Under Pressure ~
Stress. We all know it. But when people say that stress can kill you are they exaggerating? I don’t think so. Stress kills people every single day. And sure you don’t seem them dropping like flies from it because it takes a long time for it to really do some damage to you. But the cornoner’s report rarely list “stress” as the cause of death. This is because stress itself doesn’t kill you ... stress leads to a wide range of other health problems that will.
Think about it ... you are living a otherwise positive and happy life and suddenly you develop unexplained symptoms. Your quality of life diminishes ... good chance they are related to stress. But what is “stress” exactly.
Stress is an explaination of a series of negative effects and emotions ... such as anxiety, worry, fatigue, laziness, agitation, concentration problems, mood swings, lack of motivation, insomnia, depression, isolation, anger, depression, paranoia, and possibly suicidal.
Yet the greatest damage is to our immune system. Research has shown that stressing over a long period of time raises our cortisol levels. Corisol is a hormone that the body produces and one which naturally suppresses the immune system. There is a lot of research regarding the immunosuppression and it's correlation with different types of diseases. An immunosuppressed person is more likely to catch the common cold and flu, as well as more likely to get serious life-threatening diseases.
I recently read the following 5 steps, which I try to adapt ...
EXPECT IT ~ Be prepared by taking good care of yourself; you never know what the day will bring. Life is an adventure so approach it as such. Be your own cheerleader. Spend time with God everyday, be confident in what you believe, and draw strength from it.
EMBRACE IT ~ Get a new attitude towards life ... a determined stance to ride the waves of life and succeed through the storms. I decided long ago I would not live a life of regret. Now, as I get ready for the day, I say a prayer for strength to face with confidence what comes my way, and the courage to get help and support when overwhelmed.
EVALUATE IT ~ Be honest and real about what pressures occupy your thoughts, consume your energy or cause you grief. Are you exaggerating the importance of a stressor: will it really matter one year from now, or five years from now?
ENGAGE IT ~ It’s time to take action. If you can change it, do it now. Procrastination is one of your worst enemies, stealing precious moments of your life.
EMERGE FROM IT ~ Process the pressure and pain to get through it, and emerge successful and free. This requires effort, whether it is to brush off the stress of the day, or to push through the weight of a significant loss.
Face the strong currents of life with a defiant attitude and intention to achieve your goals, regardless of your circumstances. Decide that life is worth living ... we all have a purpose, and we will succeed if we manage the stress in our life in a healthy manner.